Crafting Ceremonies as Unique as You

Your day your way.

We believe your ceremony should be one of the best parts of your wedding day — not the part guests politely endure while waiting for cocktails. My job is to tell your love story with warmth, humour, and heart, and to make sure you actually enjoy saying “I do.” No cookie-cutter scripts. No stiff formality. Just a ceremony that sounds like you.

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About CEREMONIES BY SHAEL

At CEREMONIES BY SHAEL, we are dedicated to crafting wedding ceremonies that are personal and meaningful. As a certified Humanist officiant, Shael specializes in creating ceremonies that celebrate love in all its forms, without the pressure of tradition or religion. Our mission is to tell your story in a way that is authentic and memorable, ensuring your ceremony is a true reflection of your unique journey together.

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Unique Is What We Do

Calm Confidence

His theatre and music background ensures poise and professionalism in front of any crowd or setting.

Engaging Presence

Shael connects with couples and guests alike, creating a ceremony that feels authentic and heartfelt.

Sincerity & Humour

He knows how to keep things meaningful without being stiff, and lighthearted without losing depth.

Professional Storyteller

With years as a writer, musician, and performer, Shael brings artistry and flow to every ceremony.

Personalized Ceremonies

Every script is tailored to reflect your unique story, values, and personalities.

Inclusive & Flexible

Comfortable with secular, interfaith, or nontraditional ceremonies, Shael helps you craft a celebration that feels right for you.

Memorable Experience

Guests leave feeling uplifted, and couples walk away knowing their ceremony was truly one-of-a-kind.

Detailed & Reliable

From timing to tone, Shael ensures every aspect of your ceremony runs smoothly so you can relax and enjoy the moment.

Our Services

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Bespoke Wedding Ceremonies

We offer personalized wedding ceremonies that capture the essence of your love story, tailored to your preferences and style.

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Vow Renewals

Celebrate your enduring love with a vow renewal ceremony that honors your journey and future together.

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Celebrations Of Life

A compassionate, personalized cceremony that honours your loved one’s unique story, bringing meaning, warmth, and connection to every moment shared.

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Our Unique Philosophy

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At CEREMONIES BY SHAEL, we believe that every love story is unique and deserves to be celebrated in a way that reflects the couple’s individuality. Our philosophy is rooted in the idea that a wedding ceremony should be a true reflection of the couple’s journey together, free from the constraints of tradition or religious expectations. We focus on crafting ceremonies that are innovative, creative, and deeply personal, ensuring that each moment is as meaningful as it is memorable. By embracing the couple’s vision and weaving their story into the ceremony, we create an experience that is not only heartfelt but also truly unforgettable.

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   Melissa Lerner 
 24 days ago
 
 
 Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google.  We were incredibly fortunate to have Shael as our officiant. From the very first meeting, he made us feel comfortable and took the time to really get to know us. Throughout the process, he was patient, thoughtful, and a truly calming presence.

The ceremony he created was so personal and meaningful, and so many of our guests commented on how special it felt. We can’t thank him enough for the role he played in making our day unforgettable.

Thank you, Shael, for helping us start our marriage with such a beautiful ceremony. We will always be grateful. ❤️
John & Melissa
  
 
 
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   Alicia Stiliadis 
 396 days ago
 
 
 recommendsTrustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Facebook.  My wedding was on August 23, 2025 and I ran to write this review!  Shael was such a pleasure to work with.  So kind, funny and calm right from the beginning, all the way until the end!  He answered emails right away - when you're planning a wedding, having customer service like that is such a relief!

The ceremony was exactly what we wanted.  Short and sweet and customized perfectly for the amount of time that we wanted. 

Not to mention, he showed to the ceremony up in a super snazzy jacket!!

THANK YOU SHAEL!

Alicia + Cole
  
 
 
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   Montana Illman 
 400 days ago
 
 
 recommendsTrustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Facebook.  Shael was the officiant for my wedding on July 26th, 2025. He listened to all of our requests & kept the ceremony short and simple. Shael interviewed us before the wedding so that he was able to include some important details about our relationship in his script. He also included some sweet personal "advice" about the "key to a happy marriage" as he & his wife have experienced. I would highly recommend Shael to anyone getting married as both myself, my husband & our guests were extremely impressed with his service.
  
 
 
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   Rebecca Moshé-Steinberg 
 404 days ago
 
 
 recommendsTrustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Facebook.  Michael and I are so extremely lucky and grateful that we had you officiate our wedding. From the moment we got engaged, we instantly knew we wanted you as our officiant. You’ve known me my entire life, and we knew your words would bring warmth, meaning, and a deeply personal touch to our wedding day.

We wanted a ceremony that reflected our relationship, honoured our Jewish background and traditions, and felt inclusive and heartfelt, and you absolutely delivered. You took the time to understand what was most important to us and thoughtfully incorporated every element we hoped for. Your words were moving, sincere, and full of love.  You made the entire experience feel meaningful, not just for us, but for everyone there.

After the ceremony, so many of our guests came up to tell us how much they loved it. People said it was one of the most engaging and heartfelt ceremonies they’ve witnessed. They appreciated how smoothly everything flowed and how present they felt throughout it. Many told us it was the first time they were truly moved by a wedding ceremony and that’s entirely thanks to you! 

If you are looking for a wedding officiant, we highly recommend Shael. He is warm, thoughtful, and intentional in everything he does. Whether or not you have a personal connection with him, he will take the time to get to know you, understand your relationship, and craft a ceremony that feels authentic, personal, and memorable. He brings heart, humour, and meaning to every word and will make your wedding ceremony truly unforgettable.
  
 
 
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   Taylor Avery-Kenny 
 767 days ago
 
 
 recommendsTrustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Facebook.  where do I begin! Shael! Shael! Shael! all Hail Shael! I got Married to the love of my life on August 3rd 2024 and he knocked it out of the Park! 

He  was so happy, polite , kind and unbelievably calm as Weddings can get a little stressful. He is very easy to work with and willing and able to customize anything you want with his own personal style to it. 

Highly recommend Shael If you are looking for a rock star to get you Married! 

from the Groom: Taylor
  
 
 
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   Maria P Costabile 
 1058 days ago
 
 
 recommendsTrustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Facebook.  Thank you Shael for performing our wedding ceremony.  You were amazing from start to finish. 
You were so easy to talk to and found out information about us to prepare for the ceremony easily.
The ceremony  was beautiful , you made us and everyone feel very comfortable with your friendly personality.
I was so happy to have found you and you were very accommodating and offered many services .
You did a great job and I would highly recommend your services .
Thank you, 
Maria and Mario
  
 
 
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   Jody Geddes 
 1064 days ago
 
 
 recommendsTrustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Facebook.  Shael made our secular ceremony feel sacred by celebrating our unique values as a couple blending families. His huge heart and endless creativity made him the perfect choice for our wedding in the round. 

Throughout the planning process, Shael helped us feel heard and supported by encouraging open communication and collaboration. He married tradition with innovation as well as us! 

As an officiant, Shael conducts a room with his magnetic presence while also making everyone feel comfortable and included. He is a humanist because he helps people feel seen. 

Thank you, Shael, for crafting a ceremony that created a community of love and a core memory for our friends and family.

With love & gratitude,

Jody Geddes & Brian Hargan
October 21st, 2023
  
 
 
 
 
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